April 15, 2021

One of the Signs of an Abusive Spouse: No Respect for Your Boundaries

When it comes to the nature and tactics of abuse, it is important to remember that there is usually a combination of abusive methods involved. It […]
April 8, 2021

Boundaries: An Important Key in Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Boundaries are essential for living a satisfying and healthy life, but they are especially crucial when healing from narcissistic abuse. Establishing physical, emotional, and spiritual boundaries […]
March 31, 2021

Resource: Boundaries Workshop with Jake and Anna Kail

My wife, Anna, and I recently taught at a Boundaries Workshop at Threshold Church.  Boundaries are a significant part of having healthy and godly relationships, but […]
March 18, 2021

Are You Being Sabotaged? 10 Common Ways A Covert Narcissist May Sabotage You

You’ve probably heard the saying “misery loves company.” For a narcissist, that is a pretty accurate description. They might pretend to be confident or happy but […]
March 11, 2021

How An Abuser Sabotages Relationships In Order to Isolate and Control

Relationships are such a critical part of our health as human beings. Being relational is one of the ways that we are made in the Lord’s […]
March 4, 2021

When Your Spouse is Sabotaging Your Spiritual Growth

God is the author of marriage, and He designed it to be good. The marriage relationship is meant to be a great gift and a blessing […]
February 25, 2021

Am I In an Abusive Marriage? Clearing the Fog of Shame and Confusion

Covert abusers are master of deception who take pleasure in spinning a devious web of confusion and destruction around their victims. They often conceal their true […]
February 18, 2021

Sexual Abuse and Rape Happen in Marriage Too: Exposing Sexual Coercion, Sexual Abuse and Marital Rape

Sexual coercion, sexual abuse, and marital rape are all words that seem like they should be an oxymoron when talking about covenant relationship. God created sex as […]
February 10, 2021

How Pornography Fuels an Abusive Mindset

One of the common factors in men who are abusive toward their wives is pornography addiction. Pornography has become a problem of pandemic proportions in our […]